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Planning a BBQ is like Planning Your Estate

For many, Memorial Day weekend sets the tone for the summer season, beckoning outdoor festivities such as lively backyard barbecues. Although barbecues are generally casual get-togethers, meticulous preparation is essential for a memorable event. Similarly, thorough planning is crucial when it comes to estate planning. Just as you would carefully organize a BBQ, timely estate planning can keep complications at bay and secure a smooth transition of your assets.

Step 1. The menu: what do you own?

When you organize a barbecue, your first move is to select the dishes you will serve. Missing out on an essential item like buns for the burgers can leave your menu incomplete, potentially disrupting the party. The same applies to your estate plan, where a clear understanding of your assets forms the initial step. Overlooking important assets or accounts in your estate plan might derail its intended objectives.

As your legal advisors in estate planning, we will provide you with a comprehensive checklist that aids in identifying your property so that nothing is accidentally left out of your plan. For instance, you will be asked to catalog your real and personal assets, all financial and other accounts, and clarify whether they are owned individually or in partnership with your spouse or others. This exhaustive listing helps you review your total assets and decide on how they should be distributed posthumously or gifted during your lifetime. It also empowers us to recommend estate planning tactics that ensure your loved ones’ well-being while simultaneously meeting other objectives like tax minimization.

Step 2. The guest list: who are your beneficiaries?

The initial stage in organizing your outdoor gathering involves deciding whom you wish to invite. Similarly, when devising your estate plan, you must determine the individuals who will act as your beneficiaries—the ones who will inherit your assets and wealth upon your demise or those you desire to benefit while you are still alive. Although it may appear straightforward and require little contemplation, compiling this list involves more complexity than meets the eye. Your beneficiaries could encompass your spouse or partner, children and stepchildren, grandchildren, other relatives, friends, charitable organizations, and your place of worship.

While identifying your beneficiaries, it’s important to consider certain factors. For instance, you might need to assess whether all your children require an equal inheritance, or if one child, such as a disabled individual, has greater financial needs. In the case of a child struggling with substance addiction, you might opt not to leave them an inheritance, instead creating a trust that safeguards their funds from being spent on sustaining their habit. We can assist you in deliberating over your desired recipients of wealth and assets, and we can also discuss optimal strategies for providing for your beneficiaries while achieving other goals, such as minimizing estate and gift taxes or offering incentives for grandchildren to pursue higher education or embark on entrepreneurial ventures.

Step 3: Serving sizes: how much does each person get?

When planning a barbecue, it is essential to calculate the appropriate food portions for each person. Your adult son, towering at six feet tall, will likely require a larger serving than your two-year-old granddaughter. Likewise, in estate planning, your initial inclination might be to divide your assets equally among all beneficiaries. However, akin to a cookout scenario, you may prefer to grant some beneficiaries a larger share while others receive a smaller one. As mentioned earlier, if you have a dependent child with special needs, it might be necessary to establish a trust specifically designed to cater to their requirements, while allocating smaller inheritances to financially independent siblings.

Depending on your assets, it could be important to assign specific accounts or properties to particular beneficiaries while designating others for different beneficiaries. For example, if you possess a family home, real estate, or business in which only one child is actively involved, splitting ownership among multiple siblings may lead to disagreements and strain or even irreparably damage relationships. To prevent familial disputes after your passing, contemplate granting the more challenging-to-divide property to one child while providing money (through accounts or insurance proceeds) to the others. Alternatively, you may stipulate in your will or trust that the property, which is challenging to divide, be sold and the resulting proceeds be equally distributed among the siblings.

Step 4: Extras: personal letters and property to loved ones.

Similar to embellishing your barbecue with extra touches like umbrellas, tablecloths, or festive lighting to create a memorable occasion, your estate plan can incorporate special elements. These may include heartfelt letters addressed to loved ones, expressing your emotions and leaving them with a final blessing upon your departure. While a will or trust document may come across as impersonal, even if the intentions behind the bequests are acts of love for your family, a letter conveying your sentiments and aspirations could be one of the most cherished gifts you bestow.

Moreover, you can utilize a unique memorandum, commonly known as a personal property memorandum, to specify who should receive your tangible personal possessions, such as heirlooms, collectibles, or sentimental items (excluding real estate or intangible assets like accounts). This memorandum allows you to ensure that certain family members receive particular items or that everyone receives something meaningful to them. A well-documented personal property memorandum, with clear descriptions of each item and its intended recipient, can also help prevent disputes among family members over significant possessions. To ensure the memorandum’s effectiveness and legal enforceability, refer to it in your will or trust and adhere to any formalities stipulated by state law.

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You may have concerns about facing an intensive inquiry during your estate planning consultation, but we assure you that you will be pleased with your decision to seek our guidance. Anyone who has transitioned past their youthful days recognizes that failure to plan leads to suboptimal outcomes. Contact us today to confidentially discuss your estate planning objectives, and we will aid you in developing a comprehensive estate plan that fulfills your desire to secure a prosperous future for yourself and your family.


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